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Content creator Oga Obinna has recently shared insights into managing relationships with his baby mamas and his approach to maintaining peaceful co-parenting.
In his candid discussion, Obinna detailed the strategies he employs to ensure a harmonious co-parenting experience, emphasizing the importance of communication and mutual respect in his interactions with the mothers of his children.
The YouTuber revealed that many men struggle with toxic relationships with their baby mamas, and he advised them to always keep evidence of their interactions.
This, he believes, helps protect them and ensures that disputes are managed fairly and transparently.
Why Obinna doesn’t talk to all his baby mamas
In an interview on the Mic Cheque Podcast, the father of four, who has three baby mamas, revealed that he often minimizes communication with some of them to prevent conflicts and avoid lashing out.
He explained:
“I have baby mamas with whom I do not communicate directly. They communicate through Omosh, my personal assistant. If I engage with them directly, it can become disrespectful, and once I feel disrespected, I tend to lash out. Omosh knows what to relay to me and what to withhold. He is aware of the financial needs affecting the child and handles that information accordingly. If a baby mama insults me or acts out, he deals with it on my behalf.”
He further noted that because his personal assistant has no direct emotional ties to the child, there are no personal attachments influencing the resolution of issues with the baby mamas.
“Omosh has managed to defuse some potential conflicts by filtering out unnecessary details. He sometimes tells me, ‘I heard something, but I’ve chosen not to share it with you,’” he added.
How Obinna’s baby mama found out he was cheating
Elsewhere, Obinna’s baby mama, Lilian, revealed some of the most challenging aspects of their 11-year relationship.
She claimed that Obinna had always been unfaithful, and when she discovered that he had another baby mama who was pregnant, he disappeared from her life, even on the day of the delivery.
Lilian also noted that Obinna informed her about his other children only when one of them was just five days away from being born.
